1. Having tried to help a friend find an appropriately sized, not terrible, girl fan t-shirt at a convention, I was interested to listen to the Nerdist Writers podcast with the folks from Her Universewhich creates licensed stuff for girl like people. Will definitely be taking a closer look through their catalog.2. V.E. aka Victoria Schwab had a great post about making yourself ready for change.
3. I polished off Courtney Milan's The Suffragette Scandal on the plane to San Antonio last week. In it, Free's suffragette newspaper has a column called ask a man. There is a tumblr and you can go ask a man yourself, or read the other answers.